About me

I was an extreme introvert, an example of hermit.

I was low self esteem, I talk only when I’m talked to and remain silent when I’m not talked to.

I have very few friends, 0 female companion.

My phone rarely rings, rarely beeps, sometime, it stay silents for days.

Yeap, my social life was horrible. I felt miserable.

Until, I learn, it’s possible to learn charisma. It’s possible for men to change from nothing to whoever they want to be at best.

It was difficult, I was walking to a direction where, no one I know have ever walked. It’s scary. I doubt my sanity from time to time. I move on, ignoring the comments from my close ones that “it won’t work” I took extreme actions to change, I crushed and burned, it’s hard! My family shook their head in disapproval, my friends back then laughed at me. Later I learned, they are just afraid to take the first step to change. It was awkward…

And it was a long journey, but my life changed! Most of all, I MADE THE CHANGES!

I went to Singapore, without booking any hotels, and lived the best days of my life.

I obtain the skills to talk to strangers and engage into a genuine conversation.

I become much more happier and content with life.

Life is good now, everyday is an adventure, and every encounter with people, leads to the unexpected. Meeting the cute japanese and hugged her for making my day, looking in the eyes of a lovely girl I pickup at a bar, and to see that she appreciate me and adore me, and most of all, my childhood fantasy of meeting and connecting with strangers.

People who knew me, can’t believe my changes, people who doesn’t know me, can’t believe my past.

Yeap, life is interesting, the morning is beautiful, the afternoon is warm, as for the night, I can hardly tell what will happen.

This is my journal, from hermit to social guy. From Frog, to prince. Yes, I AM responsible for all the change.

Love and Peace,

Shiro

shiro[at]shirolau.com