debrief

what I did, I went to clubs, talk to whoever I can, which is good, I was low energy, I got my shirt open by a friend who is also the center of the party, kinda gay move, talk to almost everyone on my friend’s set gradually. Vibe with the waitress who serve my drink, asking for a kiss. She kiss her fingers then place it on my cheek, awesome, I should ask for more compliance. She’s cute but not my type still, she got the vibe which is admirable.
Open more sets, open a girl who bring a guy a drink who obviously isn’t a waitress. Dance, I need to learn how to do dance I like.

Things I should do.
Call someone and talk before I enter the venue, be in a fucking talkative mood. I went outside for awhile and vibe with another waitress which is good, but I end the conversation too fast. I should just talk until she left.

I remember to talk to bf even if I wasn’t sexual which is good. Learn to speak louder. Be more alpha. Talk to everyone non stop. Get in high energy if not, find a seat, or make a seat happen.

Talk as long as possible to the girls I had a great time. That’s the main point.

As for the last girl I was dancing, I think there’s some attraction going on, eg: asking where’s my fucking gf, reinitiate conversation. I told her to look me in the eye, she tried for .5 sec then look away, and said she’s shy, I kept asking her to do agian, verbal and non verbal. Instead, I should encourage her. ” You did great, wow. It makes me feel this is not just you using my body for fun” etc.

I also use my idea of opening for guys like “have you met x” “Hey, x thinks you’re cute, you should talk to him if you think he’s cute”

I open a chick, and she said no interested straight out. I was like oh ok that time, but that quality to reject on my face is rare around here, I could compliment on that and talk.

What should I do when I really want to make a connection with a girl but she’s dead tired?