Failure is just a learning experience

And also a part of growing up and a part of Game.

Feeling unsatisfied with half arse effort like approaching 1-2 girls a day and missing being the social man, I ask a friend to be my wingman, to point me a random chick and give me a random opener and I’ll go do it.

It was fun. Until I met her. The conversation vibe went well. she was immediately complimenting me on stuff. In beginning of the day, I was learning to be expressive again aside overcoming approach anxiety. So I told her she’s like the 4th girl i approach that day. At first she compliment me on being gutsy. I dq with “sometimes I can’t talk to the old lady cleaning the floor” Thing went well until her friends came. Her vibe change subtlely, and I feel she’s starting to be distant, no appearing too friendly and stuff. Main reason could be I told her friends she’s cute, gave me lots of compliment.

Then there’s this comment. “Go find other victim/participant for your survey” as I was using “is it hard to talk to girls around here” And I also told her my limiting belief on do not bother someone on/with the phone. She mentioned “so you were waiting for the right timing?” I said “no” but then my conversation was cut off by her friends and I didn’t get back to explaining myself aka qualify myself.

She had 3 friends, 2 doesn’t really talk and the 1 that talk doesn’t really acknowledge me. I think this is the part that I messed up too much as I wasn’t in control of the conversation.

I felt good even after the event then i felt pain and hurt. I think I like that girl, for the compliments and validation or it’s just my ego bleeding.