Goals
Define it, how do you reach it, how do you know when you have it
Define: Have my own social circle that I’m happy with.
How: Hang out with people I like, appreciate them, have fun together.
When I Have it: People will be glad to have my company and call me to hang out.
Define: Get a gf.
How: Thru social circle expansion & domination
When I have it: When I have physical and emotional intimacy with a quality girl
Define: Continual development in martial art
How: Weekly practice, maintain physically fitness/stamina (jogging) and diet (Eat well)
When I have it: Stamina, When I can jog around the lake 2 rounds non stop. Physical fitness, to weight 70-80kg.
Define: To have good grades.
How: Spending hours of time everyday, exclude Saturday and Sunday to study and do practice & research
When I have it: Semester end result shows it
After 1 year
Define : enter exchange program to go Aus.
How: Having Good grades, see above
When I have it: I’ll be fucking going to Aussie~!
I absolutely love stories and videos of guys who worked hard from the bottom, nothing, till the top.
1st video, dated 2 years ago, I believed I’ve posted about it but couldn’t find it in my blog. Neil Strauss
The 2nd video, showing another awesome guy who worked hard for it.
From Geek To Pimp: The Transformation of Dan
Physically, I’ve changed significantly, inside, I’m moving forward, I changed for better, I noticed, I’m much more happier and expressive. I’ll post some before and after pics someday.
A lot had happened since I came miri. I would love to write everything down in details. Yeap, after days of waiting for a vision, I come to think it’s writing, reading and beautiful girls. Not very good mix. But I gotta do what I gotta do.
By new friends, it means, friends who walk the same direction or support my cause. I filter out friends who disrespect or will pull me back.
New home is simple, no computers or tv, so I need to make life interesting by socializing. And yes, this is a good home. It’s clean physically and emotionally. I never hear any shouting or screaming of hatred (beside my shouting cause there was an event nearby, they play their speaker loud which wake me up around 9.xxam
Every week I push myself to do something more socially, and I’m growing. I have better self esteem, and I am not afraid of disapproval. One thing I can’t do before but I can now is whenever someone say they hate x I wouldn’t dare to say I love it. Now I do it all the time because I do love what I love.
I notice so far, no matter how much I grow, I’m still hanging out with loners or shy guys, not saying this is bad but I could have different experience with other groups of guys.
The different I’ve noticed so far is that, I rarely speak out when I’m in a group and in a group, it’s not about a certain someone, but how much I express myself. The more I express and love myself, the better I can do in groups.
Also, I want to mentioned I’ve started brag week. Best brag of the week, gets to be brag on the following week, starting Saturday. Previous week’s brag shall be silence. If there isn’t something to be brag whole week, make something awesome on right now!
As I grow happier and energetic in life, so does the rest of me grow too. And slowly I realize alot of the teachings from the bootcamp, why we need to do things in such matters.
