Personal Interview

An exercise from http://socialhitchhiker.blogspot.com/2007/02/conversation-and-confidence-exercises_21.html

Ever since the bootcamp, I was like, “I got this part done already” when I come across thsese kind of exercise. Since that I’ve lost everything, I decided to redo trainings again, some of the questions really kept me thinking.

1. What is your passion?
2. Tell me 5 interesting things about you?
3. What makes you really happy?
4. What is one character trait you have that you appreciate about yourself?
5. What are the important things you need in a partner?
6. Why are those things important to you?
7. If someone wrote a list of things about you that fit their needs in a partner, what would they be?
8. What are your dreams for the future?
9. What are 3 defining experiences in your life that have made you who you are?
10. Name 3-5 beliefs you have about yourself that hold you back, and you would like to change.
11. What are your weaknesses and how could each weakness be viewed as a strength?
12. What really scares you about meeting a partner to enter a long term relationship with?
13. What are your assumptions about most of the opposite sex out there and their attainability, worthiness of a relationship, and their thoughts about you?

And my answers are

1, DotA, Martial Art, social science.
2. Empathy, fun loving, tenacious, caring, adventurous.
3. When I can make my life better and help others with their life.
4. Empathy, the way I see people for who they are and what they could be.
5. Fun loving, maturity, affectionate.
6. The lack of certain degree of maturity are the cause of my family’s downfall. Affectionate is important as it communicates effort and clarity of the relationship. The art of having fun and helping others have fun, man, this quality is diamond, it just spark life and everything is beautiful. Sometimes I get too serious in the things I do in life. Definitely great to have someone to remind me to have fun again.
7. Empathy, fun loving, confident, pretective, provider/giver, affectionate.
8. I’ll definitely live my life to the fullest in 2009.
9. Broken family, asianrake bootcamp, my solitary childhood.
10. How my broken family is beyond redemption.
I’m not good enough for anyone in a relationshipand mostly, that living my day hiding in the house doing nothing, beside gaming to kill time is ok even though I already know it’s not ok but I still do it.Making the lack of finance an excuse for achieving less.
I need to be in top shape to go out.
11. Unable to find the balance in both ends, on another perspective, I know my limits.
12. I’m not good enough for the other person. bleh.
13. I honestly don’t know.