Sticky points

SP 1: When compliance was not given, I simply ignore it, I should demand it or prompt for response.

Hey, I think your eyes are beautiful.
OK. (bad)

Hey, I think your eyes are beautiful.
OK.
I just gave you a compliment, it’s polite to return one.
and so on.

Hi, I’m Shiro, what’s your name.
Err I don’t know. ( this one really happens, she wasn’t giving much compliance before, and felt awkward giving her name)
Woah, we have a mysterious girl here, OK, I’ll give you a new name, Jane Doe.(maybe not so good)

Wow, that’s the first time I met a nameless girl. I think that’s interesting. Let’s try again. Hi, I’m Shiro. (better and non reactive)

SP2: So far, I never ask for a number if I don’t have a good conversation for like 5-10 minutes. I realize, not all the time I have that privilege to chat.

Debrief1
Debrief for yesterday, I was working and 2 girls come in, it’s a part of the routine for all the staff to say “hello welcome” And when one of the girl reply me a hello. I just felt a surge of energy. The more I interact, the more I like the feeling around her.

She did call me “the handsome one” in chinese. When she tried her clothes and didn’t want to buy it, she ask for recommendations. The vibe here on was much more playful, if I’m not working, there’s so much I could do but I’m at work. I told her a few that was popular but she just isn’t interested but she keep saying, “come on, recommend me some clothes, I’m gonna buy them”

I was clues what to do at all!
I did make small talk but it didn’t lead to any where because I was asking if her friend is studying at a college I might know.

So anyway. What I could do are.
Screen, asking if she have this vibe with all the cute guys all the time.
Of course I’m expecting her to say no. And then I could “Good, I like what I’m feeling, give me your number, I think we’ll be good friends.” or any other reason for number close.

Debrief2
Lovely pinays came. I felt the same vibe for one of the big boobs. I couldn’t find much to say to her, but one of her friend. She was easy to vibe, and later I found out she perform singing with a band once in a club that is how she looks so familiar. I joke and tease, very responsive.

When they were leaving, I ask for their name and to my surprise, the big boobs, ask for my name in return. We talk about a Philippine restaurant and in jest meeting there. It was a great opportunity to arrange plans to meet and number close. But the last part didn’t happen.

I tell you guys, this have nothing to do with looks, I’ve been working there for more than a month, and before this, I was uptight and depress and no girls ever gave me such response. It’s all about the energy and how I carry myself.

I remember I look a girl in the eye for like 1-2 seconds, I was in a good mood and I just happen to see her and lock the eye contacts. She said hello later everytime we bump into each other after that.

Stick point3
I still have a problem with story telling, I just wasn’t as fascinating or interesting to capture attentions.